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Welcome to Swingers FAQ World |
Everything you wanted to know about swinging but where afraid to ask.....
What is Swinging
Swinging is a term used for when couples and singles alike meet to participate in social, intimate and sexual interaction between consenting adults. Swingers can consist of male/female couples, single men and single ladies who all wish to explore their sexual fantasies with more than one person.
Swinging has been around since the early 1950’s, and contacts back then could only be made through personal ads in newspapers. Things have certainly moved on since then and now the internet is the biggest source for people wishing to make contact with others, through contact sites and chat rooms alike.
There is a fountain of knowledge for all new swingers coming into the scene through the internet and it certainly helps you decide whether it is the lifestyle for you.
Swinging can help you fulfil your erotic fantasies, whatever they may be, without cheating on your partner. It allows you to explore together all the fantasies you have talked about whilst making love. It gives you the ability to share intimate sexual activity with others, whether it is with another couple of single guys or girls or within a group. Some people say that it helps improve their own personal relationship with their partner and help build self confidence in how you feel about yourself sexually. The swinging lifestyle is about enjoying sexual freedom and it gives you the chance to explore all the fantasies you have always had. Take each step of journey one at a time, enjoy the experience, talk about it afterwards and definitely don’t take it too seriously. The best Swinging meets are the ones where you have laughed a lot AND played a lot. UK Swingers and Doggers free contact site for like minded Adults |
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Getting Started
- If you are a couple make sure before you decide to get into the swinging scene that is something you both want to do. If you are in any way unsure it may not be right for you, or you may need to explore further before taking the plunge (see below for info on where to meet swingers).
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Your First Meet
- It’s always best to decide how and where you would like your first meet to be. Undoubtedly you will be nervous, so you need to decide where you will feel the most comfortable. Some people prefer to meet up in a pub for some drinks and see if everyone gets on, and if you do then take it further. Other people prefer to meet in their own house or at a hotel. It’s up to you to decide where when and how.
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First Time at a Club
- Make sure you research the club and read any reviews first, or get personal recommendations prior to going to a club. Most clubs require you to book in advance, therefore make sure you read their website so you are aware of exactly what is required of you.
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Private Parties - Private parties can be daunting, because all the people you have connected with either over the internet or through other sources are coming together to meet for real. Some people may not be as you expected and you may feel a little disappointed.
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